The employment situation for trans women is grim now. 57% of trans girl are being decriminalised in their job. Research shows that trans women are most likely to choose sex trade. Sex movie and site are very popular among straight men, but you should remember adult sex movie is unrealistic.
No betrayal and no insult
It's rude to say "I cannot believe you were a man, you look like a woman now." Like the author of Redefining Realness, Janet Mock said:" I am a woman. I live my life as a woman and that’s how I should be perceived. I’m not passing as anything — I’m being. Being myself."