Don't promise easily as this will be the dagger of your first trans dating. The man who truly love you would consider a lot before making a promise. In order to show their sincerity, many men like to make promises, or make a plan for the future life when they first meet a transgender woman. You'd better not make any plans for the future in the first dating, because both you and your partner need to make sure if it is the right one.
2. Introduce your date to your families and friends
Invite your date to your family party or friends party, it sounds common and acceptable, However, if it is the first trans dating, you didn't meet each other before, will you invite a stranger to your family of friends party? You are a stranger to your date before meeting each other. Most of trans girls will feel uncomfortable when stay with your friends and families in the first dating. If she is the right one for you, and you have decided to have a life time relationship with her, you can introduce her to your families and friends with her permission.
3. Talking about your past relationship
Don't talking about your past relationship when dating someone for the first dating. Dating is a new start for both you and your partner, never start a new relationship until forget your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend. It is impolite to talking about your past relationship when dating someone for the first time. More importantly, don't compare your present dating partner with your ex-girlfriend. Everyone is special in the world.
4. Ask for money
If you are a trans woman, don't ask for money in the first dating, no matter you are looking for a short-term or long-term relationship. As trans women are accepted by more and more people, most of men date trans women for a serious relationship, not for hookup. You should clear about the dating intention of your partner, make sure he knows your intention as well. Don't talk anything about money in the first dating, otherwise, it can be your last dating.
5. Invite your date to your home
Will you invite a stranger to your home? Of course no. Before meeting each other, you are a stranger to your date, so it is unsafe to invite your date to your home in the first dating. You can date your partner in a bar, restaurant, park and etc., there are many public places for you to choose from. It is unsafe for both you and your partner to date in your home.
Although trans people are the same as ordinary people in some degrees, we still need to know more about them. If you are going to date a trans person, you can follow the tips above, I think they can be helpful to you. For more detail information about transgender people and trans dating, you can follow this site or join a trans dating app.