1.They don’t intend to cheat you deliberately
If you are falling for a gorgeous girl and mean to date the trans girl, then she turns out to be a transsexual. You shouldn’t think you are cheated. No one is so bored that he makes fun of you in this way. They just did what they wanted to do, and they didn't do anything wrong. So you shouldn't blame others for it. When you are disappointed and turn away, you have to believe that it is him, not you, who is more injured.
When you find out your date is a transsexual and you are unwilling to choose a trans person as your date, then you should avoid making negative comments on transgender people. Instead, you can express your thoughts directly, like” sorry but I don’t intend to find a trans girlfriend.”
2.Understand why transsexuals are reluctant to reveal their gender
Some trans girl have experienced violence, ridicule and bullying. In order to prevent these situations from happening again, many trans girl dare not disclose their gender in order to avoid putting themselves in danger again. Therefore, don't force and expect your date to tell you his or her gender, because he is just protecting himself. They don't want to put themselves in danger before they know you're safe. When you build up enough trust between you, they will take the initiative to tell you all about them. It's much better for them to come up with the topic on their own initiative than for you to ask rashly.
3.Keep your date’s gender as a secret
The reason why your kinky dating partner is willing to tell you about her gender is that she trusts you and believes you won’t hurt them. However, doesn’t mean that she intends to make the public her gender. Thus, without her permission, you are not supposed to tell anyone else about her gender. Such actions will immediately ruin your trust which is established little by little. What’s more, when you are about to introduce your ts dating partner to family or friends, you need to ask for her permission before you introduce her. In this way, you can not only avoid making mistakes, but also enable your date to feel respect from you.
Actually, dating a kinky dating partner is not as easy as dating a straight person. You need to take more elements into consideration. If you are really interested in the tranny date, you should stick to it even though it is not an easy mission.